Wine = friendship

the older the wine..the better it taste

If you like older, "well-aged," or mature wines, then yes, older is better, as simple as that.

I mean its a very easy theory to understand or better followed from generation to generation in the wine industry===> old is better!

But that's not the only thing tat determines the goodness of wine, feeling of smoothness and delighfultness are such other factor. You might come across a wine tat tastes off, musty or moldy, now tats not how a good wine taste!

i wouldnt say that i'm an expert in jugding or tasting a wine but one thing for sure tat our three senses are involve namely, sight, smell and taste. Such a delicate and logical methods are used..

Well now you must be wondering wad am i driving at..ok to the main point..

In life you may come across with lots of different people..may or may not make new friends or relationship..Seen such relation being made and lost..some for good some for the worst..But till to date i'm still not able to understand why do peple tend to let go of frens or love ones for someone new..letting go years of moment to creat new moments.. moment/memories built on a foundation tat is made up of dead and lost frens never do they succeed.. do they?

Judging and and treasuring friendship involves lots of work in a way similar to wine making..sometimes you are hurt and sometimes you are loved..sometimes you loose and sometimes gain..But wadever u get in return are a bonus cos in friendship = sturdy shelter( no greed..no shellfishness..)

"Forsake not an old friend; for the new is not comparable to him: a new friend is as new wine; when it is old, thou shall drink it with pleasure."- Sirach 9:10

tis really makes sense doesnt it :)

DREAMZ....

has there ever been a point in life when u just feel that u are not happy with the things around you ...that there is someone totally different inside you who is eagerly waiting to come out. And that person inside of you is full of dreams and hope.what is dreams ??

• A series of images, ideas, emotions, and sensations occurring involuntarily in the mind during certain stages of sleep.



• A state of abstraction; a trance.



• A state of abstraction; a trance.



• A condition or achievement that is longed for; an aspiration

Well for me i would say dreams is all about creating your life the way u exactly want it to be and ya tats how life should be..Someone may have stolen your dream when it was young and fresh and you were innocent..but ever in life you feel that i wanna relive that same dream ..dont look back and don't even hesitate cos Some desires are necessary to keep life in motion.

cluBBing

Clubbing ===> a public or private establishment that is open late at night to provide entertainment, drink, music and/or dancing

well tats the general point of view that u can get from certain people..you get different points of view when it comes to clubbing from different individuals as compared to back then..things were much simpler..clubbing===> WRONG

i mean if u look at things, making decision back then was so much easier because wrong and right were like so black and white. BUT now it would be a pure headach making that same decision.

The question here now is " to go or not to go", many would say thats individual preference..lets say u decide to go for it..would u be proud to say u do..i mean without thinking what kind of impression that person would have about you.

Back then, it would be DEfinite NO for the ladies but now things are not the same, equality, in almost everyting.i mean we ladies also have the right for entertainments..

But ACCEPT it girls, no matter how fast this world might move we are always expected to know our limits. By the way take it as a compliment cos despite all the mordernisations and rapid changes , our role and values are still high, we are still respected in our own ways, therefore there will definitely be EXPECTATIONS . Just a few days ago, this friend of mine actually mention the the word ' visually rape ', and then it stayed in my head, and got me vexed.

thinking that u are totally safe in the club but are u really safe ? I always believe that even though u are not physical touched but u are definitely ' visually rape '. i have no problem with wadever decision or point of view u might finally made but make sure its opinionated with reason!!!

The magic of 'ada'

Umrao Jaan - Beauty, grace, class and that "something" called 'ada', blend it with memorable poetry, soul stirring vocals, lilting music

Too many good things to list..The whole film is like a beautiful poem being unveiled on screen..Rekha,Ameeran /Umrao

In an interesting twist of fate...Aishwarya Rai now playes the role of Ameeran/Umrao..who did a batter job..????...the funny thing is that for her part Aishwarya sobs her eyes out from the very beginning, up until the very end. She simpers and whimpers and yet you’re just not moved.

In contrast, you're reminded of Rekha who in the earlier film suffers in silence all along, holding back her tears till the very end, building up to a big climatic moment when your heart goes out to her.

I loved the movie, even though it WAS really slow and draggy.I was just loving the dances and fancy urdu poetry.#grin#.

It is definitely the story of thousands of young girls.. sold off to become courtesans; practically impossible to escape. And the saddest thing is, it still happens.

frenzship..

When Friendship Becomes Unhealthy

When spending time with a friend leaves you tense, frustrated, angry or upset, it may be time to reevaluate how healthy this relationship really is.

1. 1) Do you feel badly about yourself, put down or demeaned often when you're with them?

2) Do you tend to give more to the friendship than you get back?

3) Do you feel unusually dependent on them or them on you, more so than your other friends?

"If you answer 'yes' to any of these questions, you need to consider whether this is a friendship worth keeping as is."

Once you find yourself in a such friendship, how do you change the situation? Is confrontation always the best option, or is it sometimes OK to let the friendship die a natural death?

"If you feel that most of the time spent together leaves you unhappy and unwell, then communicate openly with your friend. "Just get to the point of the problem and then listen. You might learn something you didn't know and can compromise or rekindle the relationship from a new, set point."

Sometimes, though, it's easier just to let the friendship die from neglect.however, that ending a friendship can leave a painful gap in our lives no matter how unhealthy that relationship was. "Give yourself time to grieve and get your feelings out."

it is important in a friendship to express yourself naturally and truthfully**

New YEAR Resolution

punctuality...

Ya, i know there are many people who will agree with me that i need to improve on my punctuality..."The trouble with being punctual is that nobody's there to appreciate it." - Franklin Jones. I need to improve it and that’s it. And stop justifying my laziness.

Motivations:

1. "I have always been a quarter of an hour before my time, and it has made a man of me." - Lord Nelson

2. "Better three hours too soon than a minute too late." - William Shakespeare.

i just wanna get rid of the very much overused and abused reason..'Indian Timing’.
i dont wanna associated with it and its not true cos not all indian are like that( my fren SHAMINI for an example)

But more importantly, learning to respect other’s time.
"You may as well borrow a person's money as his time." - Horace Mann**
this makes a lot of sense to me*

math = madness

when it comes to math, I always find myself in dark tunnels with no light at the end etc.. im freaking out basically wen it comes to math. #lol#

But then I came across Einstein’s comment ‘Whatever your difficulties are in calculations, I can assure you, mine are greater still’.

So that was it..with such a personal assurance from Einstein himself. I can't complain about math. He failed Maths in 9th Grade you know. Now that's really Comforting to know

wow maybe i'll be a famous mathematician when i grow up (!) I cant think of anything more unlikely.