cluBBing

Clubbing ===> a public or private establishment that is open late at night to provide entertainment, drink, music and/or dancing

well tats the general point of view that u can get from certain people..you get different points of view when it comes to clubbing from different individuals as compared to back then..things were much simpler..clubbing===> WRONG

i mean if u look at things, making decision back then was so much easier because wrong and right were like so black and white. BUT now it would be a pure headach making that same decision.

The question here now is " to go or not to go", many would say thats individual preference..lets say u decide to go for it..would u be proud to say u do..i mean without thinking what kind of impression that person would have about you.

Back then, it would be DEfinite NO for the ladies but now things are not the same, equality, in almost everyting.i mean we ladies also have the right for entertainments..

But ACCEPT it girls, no matter how fast this world might move we are always expected to know our limits. By the way take it as a compliment cos despite all the mordernisations and rapid changes , our role and values are still high, we are still respected in our own ways, therefore there will definitely be EXPECTATIONS . Just a few days ago, this friend of mine actually mention the the word ' visually rape ', and then it stayed in my head, and got me vexed.

thinking that u are totally safe in the club but are u really safe ? I always believe that even though u are not physical touched but u are definitely ' visually rape '. i have no problem with wadever decision or point of view u might finally made but make sure its opinionated with reason!!!