Sunday, December 31, 2006
The magic of 'ada'
Thursday, December 28, 2006
frenzship..
When Friendship Becomes Unhealthy
When spending time with a friend leaves you tense, frustrated, angry or upset, it may be time to reevaluate how healthy this relationship really is.
- 1) Do you feel badly about yourself, put down or demeaned often when you're with them?
2) Do you tend to give more to the friendship than you get back?
3) Do you feel unusually dependent on them or them on you, more so than your other friends?
"If you answer 'yes' to any of these questions, you need to consider whether this is a friendship worth keeping as is."
Once you find yourself in a such friendship, how do you change the situation? Is confrontation always the best option, or is it sometimes OK to let the friendship die a natural death?
"If you feel that most of the time spent together leaves you unhappy and unwell, then communicate openly with your friend. "Just get to the point of the problem and then listen. You might learn something you didn't know and can compromise or rekindle the relationship from a new, set point."
Sometimes, though, it's easier just to let the friendship die from neglect.however, that ending a friendship can leave a painful gap in our lives no matter how unhealthy that relationship was. "Give yourself time to grieve and get your feelings out."
it is important in a friendship to express yourself naturally and truthfully**
New YEAR Resolution
Ya, i know there are many people who will agree with me that i need to improve on my punctuality..."The trouble with being punctual is that nobody's there to appreciate it." - Franklin Jones. I need to improve it and that’s it. And stop justifying my laziness.
Motivations:
1. "I have always been a quarter of an hour before my time, and it has made a man of me." - Lord Nelson
2. "Better three hours too soon than a minute too late." - William Shakespeare.
i just wanna get rid of the very much overused and abused reason..'Indian Timing’.
i dont wanna associated with it and its not true cos not all indian are like that( my fren SHAMINI for an example)
But more importantly, learning to respect other’s time.
"You may as well borrow a person's money as his time." - Horace Mann**
this makes a lot of sense to me*
math = madness
But then I came across Einstein’s comment ‘Whatever your difficulties are in calculations, I can assure you, mine are greater still’.
So that was it..with such a personal assurance from Einstein himself. I can't complain about math. He failed Maths in 9th Grade you know. Now that's really Comforting to know
wow maybe i'll be a famous mathematician when i grow up (!) I cant think of anything more unlikely.
Wednesday, December 27, 2006
reincarnation of Buddha
He attained enlightenment at Bodh Gaya in Bihar that borders Nepal.
omkara ada!!
Sunday, December 24, 2006
TOUCH- WOOD..
Not sure wad other occasions touchwood is used for,but i do have the tendecy of asking 'whys' and 'hows' of everything.Just found out where the phrase originates from ( had to cos got reminded of an occasion when my friend shamini used it..wad it meant was not the concern..but it got stuck in my head)
The origin is unknown, though some writers have pointed to pre-Christian rituals involving the spirits of sacred trees such as the oak, ash, holly or hawthorn. An old Irish belief that you should knock on wood to let the little people know that you are thanking them for a bit of good luck. There’s also a belief that the knocking sound prevents the Devil from hearing your unwise comments.
Everything has origination- you just need to find out what they are.It really annoys me when people form an opinion about something without knowning about it espicially when its a negative one.
I have no problems if you find out the reason behind something, and then say it silly, or disagree with it, or form a negative opinion on it.But find out, and be opinionated with reason!!!
The Power of Speech
A succesful women..
A successful woman is one who can find such a man' - Lana Turne
*hey there's always a plan B incase tis dont work out...know wad i mean..
Galz watch out!!
its not a big deal now a days for a girls to walk up to their parents .. saying that they wish to become the next big thing in hollywood..bollywood..or in any kind of entertainment world..its nice to know tat at times parents do support their dreams..I was watching TYRA BANK SHOW recently..and what i saw was really shocking not that i did not expect such a thing to be happening in mordern world but ..hey where have all the smart girls gone...
Posing nude just to become the next supermodal on your first audition..now thats something for all to think about..basically all were willing to do as what the camera man was asking with the hope that they are one step closer to their dream..on top of tat they were made to pay cash up front for their portfolio..WRONG gals now tat really wrong..a right agency will never take cash from you and make u post nude on your first audition..NEVER!!!
SO gals just keep in mind tat never ever give in..be strong..listen to the voice within you..respect yourself...there's no short cut in life..
~ indrani~
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clouds = humans= so alike..
Has anyone ever noticed how clouds that appear in the same place, move at different speeds? And how sometimes clouds are so thick and fluffy, they MUST most definately be THE cloud nine!.. While there are others that are stretched over so thin that they’re barely there?I know theres a scientific reason for all this. But still. Its one more beautiful thing of nature. I guess it all depends on the amount of moisture in the cloud, the air pressure, and whatever.The world is full of things that all move, grow and develop at different speeds. Even people.
~indrani~
i can't believe tis
Blogging+ Me = So Not ME..
Soo..yaaa..its me and yaa i'm blogging..i never thought i'll be doing tis but... hey wad the heck..there's a first time for everything..i guess its not a bad thing to blog..hopefully i'm write and time will only prove tat..the only reason why i decided to do tis cos :
- i'm damn bored
- a way to express my thoughts
- wit the hope tat something good will come out of tis